The Year We Fell Apart

The Year We Fell Apart

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A year ago Harper made the biggest mistake of her life by destroying her relationship with her best friend and first love Declan, so now that he is home from boarding school for the summer, Harper has three months to fix the year of miscommunications, secrets, and lies or finally let go altogether.
Publisher: New York : Simon Pulse, ©2016.
ISBN: 9781481438421
9781481438414
Characteristics: 316 pages ;,22 cm

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samcmar Jun 24, 2016

My co-blogger told me that I was going to have a bit of a hard time with this book due to the content. She was right. This is a novel that focuses on a young woman who has learned her mother has cancer and has a slew of other problems as well. Harper seems herself as a screw-up, a mistake, and she's someone who wants to make amends with those she's hurt.

The part of this novel that worked for me was in regards to Harper's mother. I could relate to a lot of her feelings, as my own mother has had an eleven year on and off battle with cancer. There's a lot of self-sacrifice and constantly feeling like you're being selfish when you don't want to do something. I understood Harper's feelings perfectly, because living or taking care of someone with cancer can take a lot out of you both emotionally and physically. But I also could sympathize and understand a lot of Harper's mother's feelings -- the chemo brain, the fog, wanting to be as strong as possible for yourself and others, it's a lot of hard work as well. You feel like a burden on your loved ones when all you really want to do is feel like yourself. I understood both points of view since it's something I live with every day.

But this book is full of emotions, which is what I truly loved about it. Martin writes in a way that is both witty as it is gut-punching. Harper is a character who makes so many mistakes and yet she is someone who I found myself sympathizing with throughout. She makes mistakes, she doesn't feel as though she has self-worth, and yet she's spiraling through so many emotions that she feels out of control. She doesn't know how she can take care of anyone, let alone herself. I can identify with that wholeheartedly. Unlike Harper, I found myself clinging to others when things went bad, rather than pushing people away. Still, I understood a lot of her feelings and part of me just wanted to say how much I understood what she was going through.

The friendship element in this novel is fantastically well developed, and Martin gives us so much insight into Declan and Harper's relationship. We understand how and why it fell apart, and yet the way in which they begin to converge in the story is just mind-blowing. Every character in this novel and their relationships felt so real. Also I hated Kyle. I hated him so much throughout the story and every time he was on the page I just kept cringing with disgust. He just made me so angry! But even he felt realistically portrayed.

If you love contemporary literature, especially ones that focus on tougher issues, this is a great choice. It not only shows grief, but portrays it in such a realistic way. Watching Harper fall apart and then collect herself was such a fantastic and important reading experience for me. She reminded me of myself when I was first going through dealing with my mom and her cancer. This is such a powerful and poignant read.

KATIE ESCHER Jun 07, 2016

Not a bad story, but so much of the conflict could have been resolved about 50 pages in if the main characters had just communicated with each other. I realize that would negate the plots of so many books, but in this book in particular, it was hard to believe they were ever such good friends if they couldn't even talk to each other.

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